Do you feel like you’re having the same conversations with your partner, over and over again? You think you’ve resolved things—or perhaps you’ve silently agreed to “just forget it”—and then suddenly, you’re right back where you started.

Maybe it’s a matter of mismatched desire or an old wound that never quite healed. Perhaps you’re caught in the painful dance of trying to stay present during conflict—struggling to feel heard, combating the urge to defend yourself, or shutting down altogether.

It doesn’t have to be this way. The truth is, most of us were never taught how to navigate conflict or sustain long-term intimacy. Asking for help isn’t a failure—it’s often a necessary step in building the relationship you want with the person you love.

Using tools from the Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy, I work with couples to strengthen communication and repair. Together, we look at defenses not as character flaws, but as survival strategies shaped by the past, and work to bring you and your partner back together in the present.

I welcome all relationship styles and have experience working with folks in kink and poly communities.

Fee: $180 per 50-minute session

$240 per 80-minute session

Looking for something different? Ask about my Half Day Intensives!